I am so sorry to hear this. A friend told me a story about a family friend she babysat for who used to grope her in the car when he was driving her home. She never told anyone; he and his wife were good friends with her parents. She never thought they would believe her. She also knew if they did believe her it might sever relationships between the families and she didn't want to lose her friend, their daughter. Later she heard it had happened to other young women he knew from church and the community. How many young women did that man abuse?