I truly hope that peace and joy are out there for you. I am so sorry that your life changed so dramatically and abruptly. It seemed an idyllic and beautiful one.

Life has tossed my husband and I some really awful things in our life together; we lost the home we wanted to stay in forever due to a trauma that we did not. could not anticipate. It had a white picket fence and a view of the ocean and was on a couple of acres. It was a place we had dreamed of before we ever found it.

But we have moved on in more ways than one in the more than a decade since we left there. And I have found peace and joy again although I was not sure I would. I hold out love for you and your wife and a wish for better days ahead. Sometimes we can't see the light that is there, waiting for us.