This is a really awesome list. Someone quite close to me ended a marriage a couple of years ago with someone who would have set off so many alarm bells had she read this before they tied the knot. A total assshole to be honest. Refused to let her move closer to family, made her feel small about herself even though she was a brilliant woman with so many qualities, had an affair and so on. So many shitty things about him. Gah. Broke my heart to watch it. But she's moved on now thankfully.